An escalation ladder is basically where you begin with small touches, and increasing get more physical until you kiss the girl. And to really create HARD attraction in your escalation ladder, all three types of physical moves — escalation, pushing, and moving — will need be there in the social interaction. So let me explain. As you talk to the girl in that bar and club, to create hard attraction you must escalate the physical touching.
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How to Escalate. Vin DiCarlo. Copyright Vin DiCarlo, Inc. F riend,. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 1. They never knew when and how to physically escalate from casual touch to more intimate and direct contact. Seemingly simple escalation would often be prolonged and overcomplicated. Although it may be the most important part of your game, escalation should NOT be complicated. And If I could only teach a student a single concept, this is it.
The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by-step progression through physical escalation. Simultaneously the DEL maintains no non-essential steps which would unnecessarily slow down the seduction. This system is designed for FAST escalation that is compatible with any verbal structure.
It has been tested, perfected, and used to success in hundreds of trials by myself, Vincent DiCarlo, my trainers, as well as the students I have taught. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 2. The first step actually has nothing to do with physical escalation but is still vital to the pickup. Before you approach and begin the pickup it is useful to gain information to use to your advantage.
Analyze the environment:. Do they seem close? Is she with a guy? These are all important things you should know before you approach a girl. Things like:. Make sure you have the pre-approach handled as best as you can in order to make things as easy as possible.
The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 3. Initial Conversation. After your pre-approach is handled you must finally approach and begin conversing with your target. The beauty of the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is that it is compatible with any verbal game you may have learned. Handle your conversational game in whichever way you prefer.
The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 4. Incidental Class 1. It is very common for people. Therefore it is of course the most natural start point for physical escalation. The first class of kino addresses the arms and hands. Physical escalation conducted in this. This step should be started as soon as possible, preferably within seconds of your conversational opener.
Incidental Class 1 Examples:. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 5. Overt Class 1. After a few instances of incidental kino you should notice that your target will become comfortable or even numb to it. Due to the comfort built with incidental kino we are able to move to an instance of overt kino without fear of rejection.
Overt means that it is open to view of knowledge. It is not masked in any way. This is the key to the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. We use instances of incidental kino to build up to a level of comfort and familiarity where an instance of overt kino of the same class will be properly accepted.
Because the instance of overt is accepted attraction is, in turn, spiked. This is due to a backwards rationalization that because she is comfortable with your overt escalation she MUST be attracted to you. This is why we can successfully create attraction without the use of verbal displays of value.
In this system when she acts in a positive way that is conductive to the seduction you may reward with and overt physical escalation. Alternatively if she acts stubborn or in a way that is detrimental to the interaction you may remove attention and the touch aspect of the interaction. Overt Class 1 Examples:. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 6. Incidental Class 2.
This step follows the same pattern as the previous incidences of incidental kino except. These areas are to be addressed later. Take note.
In this instance your main objective is to get closer to her without it being a direct move just yet. In a night club you achieve this goal through the use of pulling her closer to you so that you can hear her and she can hear you better over the loud music.
Alternatively you can conduct an instance of incidental touch by pulling her in close to you to point off in the distance to show her something. Incidental Class 2 Examples:. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 7. Overt Class 2. Transitioning to a comfortable area is usually part of the natural escalation to this step. Slowing things down and conducting this instance of overt kino you will notice that you get the best result if it is done in a protective or almost romantic manner.
Guiding her through a crowd or holding her close when a fight breaks out are two. You may also use her good. Though once again, it is not necessary. A compliment or nice gesture can be rewarded through a hug or pulling her in at the hips. Overt Class 2 Examples:. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 8.
Incidental Class 3. Many guys make the common. Girls are surprisingly. The hair, face and neck are addressed in class 3. Shaking his hand is generally. Should the stranger upon meeting you try to touch your face it would be extremely uncomfortable. This is why the progression is in place, you must build comfort to be able to escalate to class 3. Picture yourself meeting a stranger on the street.
Another common mistake is that more experienced guys will generally skip this step altogether, only to face last minute resistance later on. Incidental Class 3 Examples:. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 9. Overt Class 3. Overt class 3 is the most direct method of showing physical interest short of kissing, and thus is meant to prepare for the kiss. As such it is meant to be delivered in a very slow, romantic and gentle way. Most of the time while executing this step you should be sitting down, relaxed and maintaining a good sexual state.
For the most powerful execution of this step it is good to maintain very strong eye contact. If the context is appropriate a slight smile or smirk is suitable. Overt Class 3 Examples:.
The Escalation Ramp. While the above steps from may take anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours, the escalation ramp described on the following pages is very rapid. The duration of the ramp should be about 5 - 15 minutes. Start the ramp very quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location. Note that it is easier to complete the ramp while standing up or leaning against the wall as opposed to lying down. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 1 0. Ideally you should already be in a suitable position for kissing before you try.
Start kissing from a very close proximity. Often times it may seem appropriate to kiss a girl before you intend on starting the ramp. A good technique for building sexual tension would be moving closely in, slowly as if you might kiss her, and then move away and start talking about something else should this occur.
A technique to initiate kissing - try placing your finger just underneath her chin and pulling her mouth towards yours. Kissing should be light and short at first. You should be the one to pull away first.
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Users Online: Mysterious and suave Vin DiCarlo is one of pickup artists that has an ineffable aura surrounding him. He seems to be a true natural in the field, yet once you listen to what he has to teach, you see that there is a very concise, orderly, almost coded method behind his moves. DiCarlo puts a lot of focus on getting physical as quickly as possible by using what he calls the 'sexual kino escalation ladder'.